Our question to you - Do you dare to be rare?

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How much do you charge?

This is our most common question! Our fee is based on the services you need. Typically, our fee ranges from $75.00 to $4500.00.  We do not provide packages because all of our work is customized to fit your needs instead of your needs fitting into some predetermined box.  Our clients are very pleased to hear that our services are so affordable - on any budget -that whether they are planning for the VFW hall or the Taj Mahal - they can still create their "vision" and stay within their budget!    

Do you charge for consultations?

Yes, we do.  Our consultations are so candid, we practically give you all of the information you will need to plan it yourself.  Some people prefer the DIY method and need to get pointed in the right direction.  But, many of our clients prefer to have us handle all of the details so when we are booked for services, we deduct the consultation fee from their invoice.  We charge $75.00 per consultation.

What would you do as our planner?

Because we do so much for you, we can try to put it into a nutshell.  Here goes...

Once you become a client, we start off by compiling information about you, your budget and your style.  We use that information to make decisions about the services your event requires and allocate a dollar amount to each item.  We use a sophisticated budgeting program to determine these amounts - making it possible to keep your budget on track!   After compiling a list of venues that match your requirements, we set appointments and start hunting - together!  We have seen many venues over the years and can assure you that what you see online is not always what is in actuality.  Because of this we take you to view each location for your final approval.  This may take several day trips and lots of "site-seeing" but it is absolutely worth it!  We ask the questions that would be beneficial to your event, taking into consideration the special services you may require.  Once the venue is set, we move on to all of the services your event requires.   Since we have already discussed your style, we quickly determine which select vendors (i.e. Photographer, Florist, transportation, stylists, etc.) are available for your date and find at least three within your budget.  We set the appointments based on your schedule and meet the vendors together.  Why do we select three for you to choose from?  We want you to like them too!  You will be with some of these vendors for most of the event.  It is just as important for us to have your personalities mesh as it is for their service to be fantastic!  The Rare Affair will then negotiate your contracts and submit them to you for signature and deposit. 

Fast forward to your event!  Our staff arrives 30 minutes prior to your first vendor arrival and we stay until the last vendor leaves.   There will always be at least two staff members on site for your event - coordinating services, supervising set-up and delivery, making payment to vendors and of course assisting you.   We keep an emergency kit on site with all of those forgotten necessities as well remedies for those little mishaps that may occur such as garment tape or stain remover!  Not to mention, a garment steamer to press those little wrinkles to make you look absolutely perfect! 

Whew!  I feel like my life just flashed before my eyes!  That is just a part of what we do for you but certainly, that is a big nutshell!   

What if we only need a little bit of help?

We'd love to help you with your event - period.  If that means a consulation to get you started in the right direction - we're here for you with lots of vendor suggestions and contact information.   If you have planned your entire event but want someone to coordinate a schedule so the big day runs smoothly, we can do that for you also.  We also provide Day Of Coordination, where we actually start the month before confirming payments and arrival times, etc.  Sometimes we have clients who may have spent too much time choosing and not much time contracting.  We can get those contracts locked up so that you may rest assured.  Also, we produce rehearsals.  Some venues will allow you the time to have one but will you know what to do when you get there?  Will people pay attention?  Don't worry, large or small scale help - we're there for you! 

How do vendors like working with you?

I have not met with a vendor that has been offended by having an event planner working with them. Some who are unfamiliar with our position are pleased to find that we work together to make the event run as smoothly as possible. We make sure they are paid on time and that all paperwork is submitted completely. We provide detailed, up-to-date guest counts and room layouts for them. We even use customized table planning software that is a mirror of their own.

Are there any hidden costs?

No. And we mean it. We give you a very accurate price to produce your event.   Also, we do not charge our clients for communication such as emails, phone calls, letters, postage, site visits, meetings, research, etc. 

Do you charge for travel time?

Yes, sometimes.  Occasionally, we do charge for the cost of overnight accomodations for events 50 miles outside of our home office in Easton MA.  For those planning a destination event outside of Massachusetts - we do charge for transportation (airline/train/bus) as well.  We do not charge for mileage within Massachusetts - even with the current gas crisis.   Any accomodation and transportation fees that we do incur, in order to be available for your event, will be made at the most economical rates available to us.

Why don't you have pictures of past events?

The only photos we keep are of our staff with a very happy event host.  We can, however, send you the link of a past event photographer so you can take a look at snaps of our events.   Like this one by photographer Agnieszka Wormus in Boston.  Make sure you write down the password - you will need it!  This wedding was terrific!  We had a casino room and the bride wore a fuschia wedding gown!

http://photos.abrilliantphoto.com/gallery/2124698_pwUtG
password: cooleywedding

The reason: It's pretty boring to show a picture of us on the phone, driving our car or researching online.  We're planners - not florists, DJ's, caterers or favor makers.  We know what you need and how to get it no matter what it is.  We will find it, negotiate it and supervise it - always within your budget.  So, show us photos torn from popular bridal, home decorating and event magazines or tell us your grandest ideas!  We have excellent vendors that can recreate those looks to suit your budget! 

What can you do for us?

Any possible need from design concept to exotic themes, we handle all of the details.  Need a nanny for the event to handle the kids invited - we have them - all OCCS certified and CORI checked.  How about an on site, licensed nurse for a guest who may be in need of special assistance while attending your event - we have that too.  Unusual idea for a centerpiece - we find the vendor who can create it.  What about a ride from the airport or hotel for your out of town guests - check.  Planning on cuddly pets in the wedding? We have a trained handler for your furry family member! Oh, and of course the seamstress who can customize attire for that pet!  Thinking of a desination wedding?  We can locate services anywhere in the world!  Is your destination the sky perhaps? Well, thats our limit. But, we can get that hot air balloon for your ceremony and put together a lovely reception wherever you plan to land.

We do the little things too, like pick up your gown at the dress shop, schedule beauty services for the day of the wedding or a fun night with the girls and always negotiate the best price for those services. Anything to make your event relaxing and enjoyable! 

Can you go green for our Wedding?

We appreciate your asking! We try to accomodate all requests from our clients. We will find the best locations that support a green lifestyle and get you the best local, organic catering around! We have jewelers who use conflict free diamonds as well as organic gold.  We even have stationery vendors that supply plantable paper for your invitations!

What types of events do you do?

We produce all types of events. Weddings are our specialty but we also produce anniversary parties, sweet sixteen, quinceniera's, mourning and memorial gatherings, baby showers, bridal showers, baccelorette/bachelor parties, Bar/Bat Mitvahs, birthdays, even proposals. Tell your guy friends planning to propose to check us out for planning that once in a lifetime moment. We even have a stealthy photographer to capture that "YES!" moment!

Gay and Lesbian Weddings?

Whether it's over the rainbow or every prism-atic part of it - we can handle all of the details! We do not discriminate because we love what we do. In Massachusetts - everyone can get married! It's your right and our pleasure!

 

Do you receive a commission from your vendors?

We do not accept commissions from any vendors.  If we did accept payment from a vendor we would become a silent partner with their company.  We find this to be unfair to our clients and highly unethical.   Instead, we get a great discount for you!   We have excellent relationships with our vendors and they know that we like to negotiate big discounts! If we did receive a (gulp) kick-back from a vendor we give it to you - in full!   So it's not cash, maybe tickets to a game or even a gift card? You will certainly enjoy it!

What if our wedding is cancelled?

That would be terrible but it has happened.  We would contact your vendors and let them know about your change in plans.  But, because this situation has occured in the past we have a policy not to make any changes for 48 hours after the initial request.  We do this because the reason has been merely cold feet and the wedding is right back on track after some soul-searching, kissing and making up!  If we cancelled your wedding with the vendors immediately, that opens your date making it available to other people and we risk losing your date with that vendor altogether.  If after the 48 hours you decide that yes, it's off permanently, we will contact all vendors and TRY to get your deposits back.  If it is early enough in the planning stages we may be able to get a portion returned to you.  There are NO guarantees.  Some vendors will not return your deposit depending on their contract terms.  There are options though, you could transfer the deposit for a future event!   

Timing is everything - right? How close to our event should we book your services?

You should book The Rare Affair as soon as possible. We only produce one event per weekend and book up quickly - especially during the prime wedding season (May - October). You can take a two year engagement or you can take a two week engagement. Either way, we can handle it. We work with many vendors - so many in fact that whatever style you prefer we can arrange it. Giving us short notice is only a challenge for us - not you. 

Should I even hire an Event Planner?  

This one is easy! Planners take away the time you spend on your event stressing over the details. That does NOT mean we take away the fun of planning your event - we just do all the work! What it does mean is that you will be able to enjoy your celebration.   It's so much more fun to get excited about your event and telling friends about your plans than it is to sit with a notebook making the phone calls during whatever spare time you have left during the day!

You can choose all aspects of your day to make it everything you've always imagined! We ensure the proper discounts and guide you along the way - making sure you get the most for your hard-earned money.

Also, hiring a planner makes it easy for you to actually make those plans come to fruition. No more running around during your lunch break to pick out your invitations, calling vendors to set up appointments or even coordinating schedules of the bridal party for that last hoorah! Your boss will thank you! 

Try to catch an episode of Bridezillas. You will notice that these poor brides DON'T have a coordinator.

Consider us your girl friday. We handle all of the details - even the ones you didn't think of.  Event planning and coordination is our passion.

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